Problem: I realized not having a vision or a plan for my own life makes me susceptible to the will and desires of others. I will go along with their ideas and then later resent them because they seemingly have vision and are taking advantage of me not having a vision.
I see it happened at bars and at church. I drank and had sex with people at bars because I was in that environment and didn’t make it clear to myself what I really wanted. I got over involved in church because I didn’t have a vision for my life with God.
Solution: get a vision and only do something if it fits in with that vision.
Blessed and Kept 